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The Ultimate Guide to Choosing Your Wedding Photographer & Videographer
The Ultimate Guide to Choosing Your Wedding Photographer & Videographer
Original Publish Date: 27 October 2024, Updated: 07 December 2025

Why Your Wedding Photography is Non-Negotiable

Your wedding photos are the single most enduring keepsake from your entire celebration. They are the timeless vault of memories you will return to, time and time again, allowing you to instantly relive the joy, emotion, and magic of your day for years to come. This is precisely why securing the perfect photographer is one of your most critical wedding tasks.

Finding Your Dream Team

Your photographer and videographer will be the suppliers you spend the most time with on your wedding day—they are practically an extension of your wedding party!

  • Personality is Key: You must click with them! Take your time to find individuals you feel completely comfortable and at ease with. You need to trust them implicitly to capture your best angles and most intimate moments.
  • Share Your Vision: Be crystal clear about the look and feel you want. Make sure they fully understand your aesthetic and can deliver the style of images you're dreaming of.

Pro Tip: Get Together First!

The absolute best way to discover your perfect photo/video team is to meet them in person or via video call. Talk through your ideas, ensure your communication styles align, and check that you feel relaxed in their presence.

If possible, arrange an engagement or pre-wedding shoot. This is invaluable for:

  1. Understanding their style in action.
  2. Confirming your chemistry (you really do get along!).
  3. Practicing being in front of the camera before the big day!

Exclusive Offer: Your Free Wedding Planning Toolkit!

I want to help you on your mission to find the perfect team! Download your FREE, handy PDF guides today:

  1. The Essential Questions to Ask Your Wedding Photographer & Videographer.
  2. My Ultimate Wedding Day Shot List to ensure you perfectly capture every precious moment.

Ready to plan smarter? Keep reading to find out how to claim your copies!

Unlocking Photography Styles

When reviewing portfolios, consider the primary style that speaks to you:

  • Reportage/Photojournalistic
  • Candid, unposed images that capture moments naturally as they unfold. Ideal for couples who prefer the raw, real-life story of the day.

  • Traditional/Classic
  • Conventional, beautifully posed portraits that are perfectly lit and placed. PErfect for couples who love timeless, formal, and conventional elegance.

  • Contemporary/Fashion-Focused
  • Creative, magazine-style shots with a modern, artistic edge. Perfect for couples who want a bold, stylish, and highly-produced look.

The great news? Most top photographers skillfully blend these styles to capture the full spectrum of your wedding, offering a gallery that is both comprehensive and beautiful.

The Shot List: Moments You Can't Miss

Your day has arrived, and it flies by! Here are the "must-have" photo categories to prioritize, but for even more inspiration, be sure to download your FREE Wedding Day Shot List (scroll to the bottom of the page to get your free copy).

  • The knockout couple shot
  • This is arguably the most important image. Captured at the perfect moment, perhaps during the 'golden hour,' this is THE shot of the two of you that forever encapsulates the magic of your love story.

  • The Group Shots
  • No longer awkward and forced! Group photos are essential for capturing your wedding party and VIP guests. Plan a selection of beautifully posed (and even fun and entertaining!) shots to honor the people who shared your special day.

  • The Details and The Moments
  • These are the soul of your album.

    Moments: The personal, raw shots that capture the tears, the belly laughs, the dance floor euphoria, and all the tender in-between moments.

    Details: The results of your careful planning! Get close-ups of the bouquet, buttonholes, favors, table settings, and of course, the dress, combined with wider room shots to capture the full atmosphere.

Tips for Happy Photographers = Better Photos!

A happy, supported photographer is a photographer who takes their very best photos! Follow these tips to keep your team energized and focused on capturing those 'golden' shots:

  • Fuel Them Up! Feed your photographer and videographer! A hungry creative is not a focused creative. If you absolutely cannot provide a meal, let them know well in advance so they can bring their own.
  • Give Them a Break: The wedding breakfast is the perfect time for them to rest and eat. Trust me, very few people want to be photographed with a mouthful of food!
  • Communicate the Essentials: Provide your concise shot list (using my free PDF!) and give them background on important people. Are there any sensitive family dynamics? Is anyone particularly camera-shy? This helps them navigate the day smoothly.
  • Give your photographer/videographer some background on the important people, i.e. if there are any specific family set-ups they need to be aware of, or if anyone is particularly camera shy.
  • Share Your Comfort Level: Be honest about how you feel on camera. Do you dislike kissing photos? Are you shy about PDA? Do you prefer one side over the other? Letting them know ensures they make you feel comfortable.
  • Tidy Up for Getting Ready Shots: Help your photographer capture stunning preparation photos by keeping the background clear and tidy. Less clutter means more beautiful photos!
  • Consider an Unplugged Ceremony: Mobile phones held high as you walk down the aisle can seriously detract from your professional photos. Kindly ask your guests to leave it to the pros!/li>

Your Essential Checklist: Questions to Ask

When meeting prospective photographers and videographers, having a clear list of questions ready is crucial. This helps you understand their workflow, style, and most importantly, determine if you are a good fit! (Remember to download my full, comprehensive list below!)

Here are the top 5 must-ask questions:

  1. Can I see a full gallery from one wedding?

    Looking through a complete wedding allows you to assess the consistency of quality across different settings, light conditions, and group sizes throughout a full day.

  2. What is your favorite photograph you've ever taken and why?

    Their answer reveals a lot about their vision, artistic priorities, and personality.

  3. What packages do you offer, and what is included?

    This clarifies cost, coverage time, whether a second shooter is included, payment terms, and ensures you understand the full scope of the service. Always ensure a contract will be signed!

  4. Do you have public liability insurance?

    Many venues require this. It also covers you both if something happens to their equipment or on-site.

  5. Are you available on my date?

    It sounds obvious, but check availability first to avoid falling in love with a photographer who is already booked!

Claim Your FREE Downloadable Guides!

It couldn't be easier to take the next step toward finding your dream photography team!

To claim your FREE copies of both:

  • Questions to Ask Your Wedding Photographer & Videographer
  • The Ultimate Wedding Day Shot List

Simply enter your details below and hit the download button.

Start your journey to finding the perfect visual storyteller for your special day now!

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On the day co-ordination for your Wedding Day peace of mind... letting you focus on what's important! Hand over your carefully curated Wedding Plans to an expert co-ordinator to ensure your day runs smoothly.
 

Essex Wedding Planner - Everything from Yes
Full Wedding Planning support, for the very best Wedding Planning experiece. A reliable & experienced planner by your side, for help & guidance every step of the way.
 

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A flexible approach to Wedding Planning, giving you the opportunity of a more hands-on approach, whilst having expert support & guidance to finalise the last details.
 

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Help, support, ideas & inspiration, to keep your Wedding Planning on track. Hourly sessions to help you focus on your plan, develop your concepts, identify your priorities and assemble your next steps.