A HUGE congratulations to you if you recently said "Yes!" I hope you’re savouring every second and enjoying that incredible newly-engaged glow.
This is such a magical chapter—a time to celebrate with your favourite people, share the news, and begin sketching out the first details of your dream wedding. My advice? Take your time. Bask in the joy, cherish the quiet moments together, and truly soak up the love.
When you feel ready to transition from "just engaged" to "planning the big day",contact meto find out how I can help bring your vision to life.
However, if you are reading this because you are still searching for the perfect way to pop the question, you’re in the right place. Keep reading for my top tips on planning a proposal that is extraordinary, deeply personal, and utterly unforgettable.
Crafting a Once-in-a-Lifetime Moment
You’ve found the love of your life, and you’re ready to make a lifelong commitment. But as many soon-to-be-fiancés discover, finding the perfect way to ask is often harder than it looks! Your engagement is a milestone that, with the right planning, becomes the perfect prologue to your life together.
Here are my 14 top tips to ensure your proposal is unforgettable for all the right reasons:
1. Align Your Visions
Before you start booking anything, ensure you are both on the same page regarding your future. This is a lifelong commitment, and while the how should be a surprise, the fact that it's happening shouldn't be. Have non-specific conversations about your timelines and expectations to ensure you’re moving forward together.
2. The Tradition of Permission
It may feel a little old-fashioned to some, but asking for a partner’s hand from their parents or family is a gesture of immense respect and dignity. It’s a beautiful way to honour their roots and ensures the engagement starts with the full support of your inner circle.
3. Master the "Backstory"
Planning a secret takes time and several "errands." To keep the surprise intact, create a convincing cover story for your extra phone calls or trips out. This keeps your partner’s mind at ease and ensures the final moment is a total shock.
4. Focus on Their Preferences
Does your partner dream of a private, candlelit moment or a grand gesture with an audience? Tailor the environment to their comfort level. To make it feel even more significant, choose a date or location that holds symbolic meaning for your relationship.
5. Weave in Personal Touches
Incorporate mementos from your shared journey—letters you’ve written, music from your first date, or photos from your favourite trips. These personal layers transform a "standard" proposal into a unique story that is exclusively yours.
6. Prepare Your Words
This is a high-emotion moment; don’t rely solely on improvisation! Plan what you want to say and practice aloud. You don’t need a scripted monologue, but having a few key points will help you stay grounded when the nerves kick in.
7. Be Authentic
Your partner loves you for exactly who you are. It’s perfectly okay to be nervous—it shows how much this means to you. Tell them how they’ve changed your life, and if you find yourself lost for words, let a kiss seal the deal!
8. Capture the Memory
You will never regret having high-quality photos or video of the moment they say "Yes." Whether you hire a professional proposal photographer or rope in a trusted friend to hide in the wings, ensure the memory is preserved forever.
9. The Surprise Element vs. Collaboration
Consider whether your partner would prefer a total surprise or if they would love to be involved in the process (especially regarding the ring). There is no right or wrong way—only what is right for the two of you.
10. Finding the Perfect Ring
If you’re surprising them, do your homework. Check their Pinterest boards or ask their best friend for style "intel."
11. Embrace Flexibility
Even the best-laid plans can hit a snag. If the weather changes or a restaurant is closed, don't panic. Roll with the mishaps; they often make the best stories later. The most important thing is the person standing in front of you.
12. Wait for the Right Atmosphere
Mood and ambience are everything. Follow your instincts; when the right moment arrives, you will feel it. And of course, have a bottle of chilled bubbly ready to celebrate!
13. Protect Your "Bubble"
Once the question is popped, decide how you want to share the news. You might want to stay in your "engagement bubble" for a few hours (or days) before telling the world, or you might want to call everyone immediately. Do what feels right for you.
14. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask for Help
Planning a secret proposal while coordinating photographers and locations is a lot to handle alone. Whether you need a best friend’s help or the expertise of a professional planner to manage the logistics in secret, asking for support allows you to focus on the moment itself.
If you need a helping hand to plan an extraordinary proposal or an engagement party to remember, get in touchtoday!
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