Whether it’s a stunning decorative focal point, a fun photo opportunity, or simply the most delicious dessert you’ll ever eat, the cake remains a beautiful staple for so many weddings.
I’ve been diving into a bit of history, exploring the dreamiest flavour combinations, and gathering my best display tips to help you navigate the world of wedding bakes. If you’re not quite sure where to start, here are a few questions to kick off your mouthwatering journey and help you inject a little personality into your day:
But if you’re not sure where to start with your cake design, here are a few questions to get you started on your mouthwatering journey and help you to inject a little personality into your Wedding Day treat:
If you’re feeling a bit stuck on the answers, don't panic! Your cake maker is a fountain of knowledge, and I’m always more than happy to help you narrow down the options (especially the tastings—my favourite part of the job!).
Did you know that wedding cakes were originally all about good luck? In ancient Greek and Roman times, grains of wheat were thrown over the couple to promote prosperity and fertility. Eventually, the couple began sharing crumbs of wheat cakes as a sign of unity.
During the Middle Ages, tradition says couples would try to kiss over a tall stack of small cakes. If they could manage it without the whole thing toppling over, they were destined for a long and happy marriage! We can thank the Victorians for the classic white icing, which was originally used to symbolise purity. Today, anything goes—your cake can be any colour, shape, or design that reflects who you are as a couple.
YYour cake shouldn't just look the part—it should be the most delicious thing you’ve ever tasted! My best advice? Choose your absolute favourites. While it’s nice to have a "crowd-pleaser" tier for your guests, make sure there’s a layer that is 100% you.
If you’re looking for some inspiration, here are a few of the most popular choices right now:
A quick tip: Think about your season! A light, zesty lemon is perfect for a spring afternoon, while a rich ginger spice feels so cozy for a winter celebration.
Your cake is a work of art, so let’s make sure it gets the spotlight it deserves! The style is entirely your decision, but I love seeing a cake that "talks" to the rest of your decor—maybe using the same lace pattern from your dress or fresh blooms from your florist.
The "Tier" Trick: If you’re dreaming of a towering five-tier masterpiece but only have a small guest list, ask your baker about “dummy tiers.” These are clever polystyrene layers that give you the visual drama without having mountains of leftover cake!
Creating Height with Spacers: Another fantastic way to add a modern, airy feel to your cake is by using spacers or separators between the tiers. Whether it’s a clear acrylic block filled with florals, a sleek gold hoop, or a hidden stand that makes the top tiers look like they’re "floating," spacers are a brilliant tool for adding extra height and a touch of "wow" factor to the overall silhouette.
The Display: Think about where your cake will sit in the room. A beautiful table dressed with specialist fabrics, mirrors, or floral "meadows" can really showcase the design. And a little practical note from your planner: make sure that table is level and sturdy! With all that height and those beautiful tiers, we want to make sure there is no chance of a wobble or an accidental topple before you've even had a chance to take your photos.
Most of all, make sure you actually get a slice before your guests devour every last crumb!
If a traditional sponge isn’t your thing, there are so many fun ways to treat your guests. Some of my favourite alternatives include:
You can even do a mix of both—a small cake for the "cutting" photo, surrounded by a dessert table for everyone to dive into!
Finding the right baker is all about finding that "click." To help you feel prepared for your consultations, I’ve put together a handy, take-along PDF guide with my top questions to ask.
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